Parent & caregiver guide
Sleep, school start times, and a wired brain at midnight
Sleep is the foundation under every other mental health strategy. Teen bodies naturally shift later, but school starts early — so most teens run a deficit all week. Tired brains feel more anxious, more irritable, and less able to handle ordinary stress. Fixing sleep often fixes half of what looked like a mood problem.
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What to look for
Common signs
- Falling asleep after 11pm on school nights, sleeping until noon on weekends
- Irritability, tears, or shutdowns in the late afternoon
- Falling asleep in class or needing caffeine to function
- Racing thoughts at bedtime: "I can't turn my brain off"
Do this first
Practical strategies to try today
- 01
Anchor the wake-up time first. A consistent morning fixes nights faster than an earlier bedtime.
- 02
Screens out of the bedroom and off an hour before sleep — light and group chats both keep the brain on.
- 03
Build a 20-minute wind-down: shower, low light, stretching, audiobook, no problem-solving.
- 04
Move worries to paper before bed with a two-minute brain dump.
- 05
Cap weekend sleep-ins to about 90 extra minutes so Monday doesn't feel like jet lag.
How to bring it up
Conversation starters
"What's usually going through your head when you're lying there awake?"
"What would make bedtime feel less like a punishment?"
"What time do you actually fall asleep — not what time you go up?"
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Where to turn
Community resources
Don't wait
When to seek additional support
- Snoring, gasping, or daytime sleepiness despite enough hours — ask about a sleep study
- Insomnia lasting more than a month
- Sleeping far more than usual alongside low mood
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